5 CHAIRS 5 CHOICES & 5 STEPS TO ACHIEVING ANYTHING

22-23 June 2019 Lousie Evans and I gave our first seminar together.

The Art of Relationship — Exploring the Language of collaboration and Love

The group was composed of a community of individuals living and working together and some of their friends…all of them in relationships, all of them interested in improving their partnerships.

The result was a deeply moving and inspiring event that has left us all with the desire to continue and develop this precious work.

Louise and I very inspired and committed to developing our collaboration and offering the fruits of our interaction and cross-fertilization to more people in the future.  Stay tuned!

Tallest Building In Town Ain’t That Religion?

I heard an interview with Joseph Campbell in which he reflected on how the tallest buildings of any given era express the values and myths that drive that culture. So in ancient times, the tallest building of any town was the cathedral, temple or sacred monument, then in the era of princes and merchants, the tallest structures were the palaces and royal administrative buildings; now, in our modern, economically driven times, the tallest buildings are bank or corporate headquarters. Things that make you go “hmmm“.

Yuval Noah Harari points out that of all the stories homo sapiens have created, the most powerful and sustainable one so far is the story of the value and importance of money. Everything is driven by economics, the story of money seems to be today’s religion.

On one hand, I see this need to monetize everything we do as a collective delirium that has taken over our lives, a consensus reality that mistakes making a living for just living.

However, the idea that each one of us can transform our talents and passions into economy generating activities, that we all can become freelance content creators, independent entrepreneurs, life artists, is fantastic. The possibility to make our living by practicing the things we feel make life worth living, seems like a giant step in the evolution of our thinking and doing concerning work and how we understand what we’re here to do.

Given the upcoming fusion of robotics and artificial intelligence, the predictions about the future of work and the labor market are that a so-called “useless class” (Harari) may be created. Millions and millions of people out of work. This seems to be inevitable. But is it a problem? Doesn’t it open the door to the development of a population of researchers, philosophers, artists, freelance creatives, people free to develop themselves rather than chained to the wheels of underpaid labor with the sole purpose of paying off debts and consuming stuff produced in order to keep them working so they can buy stuff and keep the machine rolling?  Can it be that this is what the current transformation of the concepts of work and the shift towards independent freelance activity is about? As Douglas Rushkoff said, “I’m not an optimist, but I am hopeful.”

FALLING

Falling continuously into this moment of BEING.
Do not cling to your beliefs.
Do not cling to your securities.
Do not cling to anything.
Let AWARENESS, the focused silent witness
pierce gently the veil of opinions, beliefs, preconceptions, acquired reaction patterns, defense mechanisms, proofs and theories
and see what is that can contain the broadest truth as things present themselves now.

Knowing the difference

“Learning to look deeply to see into the true nature of things, having direct contact with reality and not just describing reality in terms of notions and concepts, is the practice.” Thich Nhat Hanh

When we learn to discern the DREAMING understanding all we see and encounter in daily reality, we learn to see what is really happening underneath the concepts and notions with which we communicate among ourselves in order to transmit and share experience.

POLARITY — UNTYING KNOTS

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POLARITY AND UNTYING KNOTS – a conversation with my friend Dorit Weintal.

We were talking about some new year’s eve heated conversations about racism and immigration. Polarized issues. I was saying that there’s no point confronting “facts” against each other. So called facts just line up according to the values, viewpoints and instruments used by the researchers. 

Resonating with this, Dorit came up with this wonderful insight:          << If you want to release/untie a knot you can’t do it by pulling hard on the ends of the tangled rope in one direction or another. You need, instead, to take the knot in your fingers and delicately massage it, turning it this way and that, move it around to let it relax (moving your whole body with it as well). This way the openings will be found. >>

Elvio Raffaello Martini Bio

5 Steps For BuonAbitare

Last summer, Francesca Scafuto, clinical/social and community psychologist and dear friend, created a connection – she introduced me to professor Elvio Raffaello Martini, an eminent community psychologist and leader of the BuonAbitare (GoodLiving) project. As a result of that and subsequent meetings, he invited me to give a seminar intended as an introduction to a possible longer series of workshop/trainings for the network of psychologists and social workers of BuonAbitare.  The seminar took place on the weekend of 15/16 December 2018 at the San Cerbone convent in Lucca, Italy.

Bio

Community Psychologist and Trainer, for over thirty years he has carried out consultancy / training and action research activities in organizations and local communities, working for many municipalities, healthcare companies, private companies and third sector subjects.
He received part of his training in the United States, at several universities and training centers, in the area of ​​personal growth and community development. He worked for two years in Ecuador as an expert of the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, coordinating a bilateral cooperation project.
He has written and published works on Community and has published several books at Carocci publishers.
During his years of professional activity, he became increasingly convinced of the importance of place-based interventions in living contexts for fostering quality of life for people. Convinced of the usefulness of the eco-systemic approach to understand and face the problems of well-being of and in residential contexts, he considers the people, as well as, the place they inhabit and the relationships they have as elements of a single system.
Based on this belief, he has created and is animating the BuonAbitare project which, through a network of professionals and a social promotion association, promotes good living in places where people live and in places where
Psicologo di Comunità e Formatore, da oltre trent’anni svolge attività di consulenza/formazione e di ricerca azione nelle organizzazioni e nelle comunità locali, lavorando per molti comuni, aziende sanitarie, aziende private e soggetti del terzo settore.
Ha conseguito parte della sua formazione negli Stati Uniti, presso diverse università e centri di formazione, nell’ambito della crescita personale e dello sviluppo di comunità. Ha lavorato per due anni in Ecuador come esperto del Ministero degli Esteri, coordinando un progetto di cooperazione bilaterale.
Sul lavoro di comunità ha scritto articoli e ha pubblicato diversi libri presso la casa editrice Carocci.
Nel corso dei suoi anni di attività professionale si è convinto sempre di più dell’importanza che rivestono gli interventi place based nei contesti abitativi per la qualità della vita delle persone. Convinto dell’utilità dell’approccio eco-sistemico per comprendere e affrontare i problemi del benessere dei e nei contesti abitativi, considera le persone, il luogo che abitano e le relazioni che hanno fra loro come elementi di un unico sistema.
Basandosi su questa convinzione ha ideato e sta animando il progetto BuonAbitare che, attraverso una rete di professionisti e un’associazione di promozione sociale promuove il buon abitare nei luoghi dove le persone risiedono e nei luoghi dove lavorano

Elvio Raffaello Martini’s Feedback on the seminar 5 Steps To BuonAbitare — convent of San Cerbone, Lucca, Italy

Here are some keywords that come to mind if I think of the seminar at S.Cerbone: walking, moving, exploring the environment and one’s inner world, but also stillness, returning home, listening and listening to one’s self; getting involved, risk, giving up control; cultivating relationships with fellow travelers and nurturing the dream with them; nourishing the body, the mind and the soul; lightness and depth. Thanks to all of you for sharing this experience and to Ron who has guided us on this path. With the wish to continue this research also in the year that is about to begin. A hug. Raffaello

5 Steps To Achieving BuonAbitare (Lucca) – take aways

In December at the convent of San Cerbone in Lucca I did a weekend intensive for a group of Community Psychologists of Buon Abitare (Living Well). Here some reflections.

I take with me a sense of gratitude for the opportunity to have been able to work with a group so prepared, varied, strong and open to get involved. I take away an exciting sense of wonder about how the group process manifested presence, and demonstrated the process and the richness of the Field in action. The group revealed itself to be a social body that lived and learned collectively from experience. I also take with me the sincere desire to deepen my commitment to understand how the tools of body work and theatrical expression can serve to embody and empower individuals and communities through the expression of our dreams, emotions, needs and soul.

Io porto via un senso di gratitudine per l’opportunità di avere potuto lavorare con un gruppo così preparato, varieato, forte e aperto a mettersi in gioco. Porto via un senso di meraviglia eccitante per come il processo del gruppo ha manifestato la presenza, il processo e la ricchezza del Campo in azione. Il gruppo si è rivelato essere un corpo sociale che ha vissuto e imparato dall’esperienza collettiva. Prendo con me anche il desiderio sincero di approfondire il mio impegno a comprendere come gli strumenti del lavoro corporeo e l’espressione teatrale possano servire a incarnare e responsabilizzare individui e comunità attraverso l’espressione dei nostri sogni, emozioni, bisogni e anima.